January arrives with its promises and planners, tempting us into the same old cycle. We scribble down resolutions, armed with fresh optimism and overpriced notebooks, ready to become those mythical "best selves" who never skip leg day and always meal prep on Sundays. By February, reality sets in. Life - messy, unpredictable, wonderfully chaotic - has other plans.
For years, I played along, convinced each January would be different. But the issue isn't ambition - it's our definition of it. We've internalised this narrative of success as a perpetual sprint: faster, higher, bigger, better. It's a treadmill with no off switch, powered by the collective anxiety of LinkedIn updates and #riseandgrind culture.
The past few years brought this into sharp focus for me. Two babies back-to-back who apparently missed the memo about sleeping through the night. Orchestrating a home renovation that turned "This Is Fine" from a meme into my daily mantra. A wedding squeezed between chaos. All while steering my solopreneur ship and being the primary breadwinner. Exhilarating? Yes. Exhausting? Let's just say coffee has become less beverage, more life support.
As 2025 approaches, I'm choosing a different path. Not another sprint, but a sustainable rhythm. A pace that allows for both progress and presence - and actually enjoying the journey along the way - radical, I know.
But to make this shift, we need to fundamentally redefine what success looks like.
We all know the story. Type 1 Growth is capitalism's golden child: endless expansion, breakneck speed, and those irresistible hockey-stick graphs that make venture capitalists weak in the knees. It's the high-speed train of more/bigger/faster, powered by an energy drink cocktail of FOMO and perpetual optimisation. But read the fine print and you’ll see that burnout isn't just likely - it's practically a rite of passage.
But what if success didn't require sacrificing your sanity at the altar of productivity? Enter Type 2 Growth, courtesy of futurist Kevin Kelly, who might just be the anti-hustle prophet we've been waiting for. While Type 1 is busy tracking steps and biohacking their breakfast, Type 2 is about something radically simple: quality over quantity. As Kelly puts it: "Standard economic growth aims to get consumers to drink more wine. Type 2 growth aims to get them to not drink more wine, but better wine."
Kelly's insight about wine applies perfectly to how we think about personal growth. Just as mindlessly drinking more wine doesn't make us better wine connoisseurs, frantically doing more doesn't make us more successful humans. When we apply Type 2 thinking to our lives, it shifts everything - from how we parent (quality time over scheduled activities), to how we work (impact over hours), to how we learn (depth over certificates).
In practice, this means trading quantity for quality in every domain. Instead of cramming our calendars with networking events, we build fewer but deeper professional relationships. Rather than consuming endless content, we take time to reflect and integrate what we learn. Instead of chasing multiple side hustles, we focus on crafting one thing exceptionally well.
This isn't about lowering our ambitions - it's about elevating them. Trading the superficial for the substantial, rigidity for resilience, and the exhausting pursuit of "crushing it" for the satisfaction of building something meaningful. Because perhaps true success isn't measured in inbox zeros, but in creating a life that doesn't feel like something we need to escape from.
The New Pillars of Success
I started wondering: what would success look like through the Type 2 lens, if we stripped away all the noise? If we moved beyond the obsession with speed and scale and instead focused on something quieter, more deliberate? Not another productivity framework that requires a PhD to implement, but a version of success rooted in substance, meaning, and balance.
That question led me to map out a new way of thinking about "achievement" and evolution. I wanted to create definitions of success that felt both expansive and grounded, poetic but deeply practical. What emerged were six distinct pillars—six ways of approaching progress that challenge the norms and tell a different story.
Longevity as Legacy
Longevity isn't about fleeting wins or the dopamine rush of instant recognition—it's about crafting something that lasts. It's not chasing virality or algorithmic favour, but cultivating a body of work, a reputation, or a presence with real staying power. Longevity asks us to reject the churn of "just getting stuff out there" and instead focus on creating things of true value, work that stands the test of time.
Think of it as playing the long game. It's the difference between a one-hit wonder and an artist whose songs become the soundtrack of generations. For individuals, longevity is about being deliberate with your energy - choosing depth over drive-by content, expertise that compounds rather than burns out. It's about resisting the siren call of quick wins and focusing on what truly matters—what leaves a mark.
It's not about how many likes you get today; it's about building something people will still value tomorrow. Longevity reminds us that success isn't measured in notifications but in lasting impact.
Stability as Strength
Stability rarely makes headlines—it's not flashy or Pinterest-worthy, and it won't break the internet. But it's the quiet cornerstone of lasting success. Stability is about setting yourself up to weather life's inevitable peaks and valleys, creating a foundation that can carry you through both the champagne moments and the instant-ramen weeks.
At its core, stability means having enough: enough income to feel secure, enough savings to give you breathing room, enough support to keep you steady when things get rocky. It's not about chasing extremes—it's about cultivating a sense of calm and resilience that lets you navigate life's uncertainty without your blood pressure becoming a daily metric.
This might look like diversifying your income streams so you're not one client away from panic. It could mean building a financial cushion that allows you to take meaningful risks without requiring a side hustle in cryptocurrency. It's the practice of being proactive rather than reactive, creating systems and routines that provide structure even in chaos.
Flexibility as Freedom
Flexibility is one of the most underrated markers of success. It's the ability to pivot without everything falling apart, to embrace change, and to live life on your own terms. Think of it as designing a life where you can work how, when, and where you want - making freedom a daily reality rather than a distant dream.
While the productivity gurus preach rigid routines, true power lies in the ability to design your days with intention. It's about having the agency over your time and energy, with the capacity to shift focus without guilt or hesitation. For some, this might mean escaping the 9-to-5 grind to create a portfolio career with multiple income streams. For others, it's about blurring the boundaries between work and play, allowing space for creativity and joy to coexist with productivity.
Flexibility isn't chaos in disguise; it's intentional freedom. It's having the resilience and structure to support a life that adapts to your needs, not the other way around. It's the foundation that allows everything else you build to thrive, bend, and grow.
Enrichment as Evolution
Enrichment trades superficial progress for meaningful growth. It's the deliberate pursuit of depth and understanding, but not through narrow specialization. Think of it as becoming a renaissance person rather than just an expert - someone who can draw unexpected connections, blend different disciplines, and see the bigger picture that specialists might miss.
While others chase productivity hacks, enrichment demands we engage fully with our pursuits. It's about developing wisdom that transcends any single domain, creating work and experiences that resonate beyond their immediate context. Growth isn't just about mastering one skill—it's about expanding our capacity to learn, adapt, and synthesise across boundaries.
Think of it like a chef who not only masters cooking techniques but understands agriculture, chemistry, culture, and human connection. Their expertise isn't confined to the kitchen—it flows into storytelling, sustainability, community building, and innovation. For us, enrichment might mean pursuing multiple interests deeply enough that they begin to inform each other, nurturing diverse relationships that challenge our perspectives, or developing skills that complement rather than just compound.
Success in this context isn't about becoming the world's foremost expert in one tiny niche. It's about building a rich tapestry of knowledge and experience that makes us more adaptable, insightful, and capable of meaningful contribution across different domains.
Consistency as Credibility
Consistency is the quiet foundation upon which lasting success is built. It's not trending on X, and it won't make the morning headlines, but it creates something far more valuable than momentary fame: trust. Trust in yourself, trust from others, and trust in the process of steady, intentional progress.
At its heart, consistency is about showing up—day after day, even when motivation wanes, even when progress feels slow, even when the finish line seems to recede into the distance. It's the steady drumbeat that transforms small, deliberate actions into monumental achievements over time. It's about the promises we keep, especially the ones we make to ourselves.
Think of it as compound interest for your reputation and expertise. Each small action, each delivered promise, each steady step forward builds something that flashy success can't touch: credibility. It's not about perfection but about persistence, the quiet resolve to keep going, knowing that success is rarely about a single moment but the accumulation of many.
Fallow Periods as Fertile Ground
In farming, land is left fallow to rest and regenerate, ensuring it remains fertile for future harvests. In a culture obsessed with constant productivity, we've forgotten this fundamental truth: creativity and growth require rest. These fallow periods aren't signs of laziness or lack of ambition—they're essential spaces where innovation takes root.
When we constantly push ourselves, demanding endless output, we risk depleting not just our energy but our wellspring of ideas. It's in the quiet moments—when the noise of achievement fades—that true breakthroughs often happen. Einstein had his most profound insights not during frantic work sessions but in moments of idle contemplation. The greatest artists, writers, and thinkers throughout history have understood that stepping back isn't weakness—it's wisdom.
Fallow periods allow us to come back stronger, with fresh perspectives and renewed energy. They're not gaps in productivity; they're investments in sustainability. Success isn't just about the times we produce—it's also about the times we don't.
A New Blueprint
The traditional markers of success—speed, scale, and surface-level wins—have lost their shine. We've outgrown the relentless chase, the endless pursuit of more. True success isn't found in constant acceleration; it lies in what we choose to build, nurture, and sustain over time.
For me, this year isn't about revolutionising my life—it's about reclaiming it. Finding joy in the rhythm of the everyday rather than the rush of constant achievement. Creating space for those fallow periods where nothing seems to be happening but beneath the surface, everything is germinating. Leaning into consistency not for the sake of metrics, but for the steadiness that builds trust and momentum. Seeking depth over breadth, and crafting work that resonates long after the notifications fade.
As I look ahead, I'm letting go of rigid resolutions and embracing something softer: rhythm. A beat that sustains instead of sprints. It's not about standing still, nor is it about endless motion—it's about choosing a pace that allows for both growth and grace.
Maybe this is the year we stop confusing busy with accomplished. The year we abandon the relentless pursuit of more and focus instead on better. The year we trade quick wins for lasting value, shallow goals for meaningful ones, and the exhausting sprint of speed for the quiet power of substance.
Because success isn't about how fast you get there. It's about what you create, who you become, and the legacy you leave behind. And sometimes, the most revolutionary act is simply choosing to grow at your own pace.
NB - And for those wondering - no, I'm not pivoting to posting inspirational sunrise photos with fortune cookie wisdom. These Type 2 Growth principles aren't just personal philosophy; they're becoming core to how I approach brand strategy and business growth. Same professional troublemaker, just with a deeper understanding of what sustainable success looks like. The journey ahead promises to be fascinating - not just for me, but for the brands and organisations ready to embrace this shift. Stick around - things are about to get interesting.
This is gold dust
“Finding joy in the rhythm of the everyday rather than the rush of constant achievement. Creating space for those fallow periods where nothing seems to be happening but beneath the surface, everything is germinating.”
Needed to read this today 💗 thank you for sharing!